Text Game Mastery Report

Ready to learn about the difference between good texting and great texting, and how the latter can double or triple the number of women you sleep with? In this special report, you’re going to learn how to use texting to build attraction and intrigue so compelling that she’ll be thrilled for the opportunity to see you again.

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UPDATE: the contest is now over. Thanks to everyone who submitted their inquiries! Don’t forget to download the report and see what the fuss is all about!

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Christian and Race

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103 Responses to “Text Game Mastery Report”

Amir 10:35 pm

Yeah boy first comment! Looking good, looking good.
Mike 3:04 am

Thanks guys!! Looking forward to reading this and seeing what it’s all about!!
Philip 3:04 am

Perhaps I am very old school, but when I get a girls
#, I expect to be able to speak with her. Anything less
and it was not really a solid number close.

And if my interaction with her was not solid enough
or I did not connect with her/impact her enough so
that she would want to speak with me again, why
would I think that I can text her into being attracted
to me and go on a date with me?

Seems like a very poor way to manage a social
interaction, your social life – like playing video
games, or for people who really do not know
who or what they want.

Good luck with your txt game.
Iceman 3:04 am

sweeeeeeeeet been lookin fwd to this one. and I’ll look forward to the photoshop work Christian lol
Jordan 3:09 am

thanks guys I know this is gunna help me can’t wait to read it
Mike 3:10 am

Philip you sound old and/or angry. Won’t even begin to start and maybe hey it works for the girls you’re dating but I know that there’s some badass stuff I’ve done over text and it’s already lookin like these guys have come up with a lot more.
Jeremy M 3:18 am

YO aweomse guys here’s the down and dirty…

- How you met her
Met her online lol you like that one don’t you race

- How long you’ve known her
about two weeks. she gave me her number but she’s been kinda flaky about meeting p

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
obviously :p

- Any other short details that might be helpful
She’ HOT. I met her using a lot of the window shopping stuff man she’s just really challenging. not sure if she’s in a relationship. might actually use the dirtiest dream thing on her but not if you can help me out dawg thanks!
Jovanny 3:18 am

glad the games out, so say you got a girl that’s completely unresponsive, how would you get to switching roles?
Fionn 3:25 am

- How you met her

at a folk music festival last summer

- How long you’ve known her

since August 2009.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?

we hung out a couple of times. she had a long distance boyfriend at the time. then she got distant. but then i saw her on a bus and she was super warm and friendly and said, ‘we should hang out sometime soon!’ I sent her a fb message saying, ‘great to see you etc’ but NOT suggesting we get together. in her reply she brought it up again, ‘we need to catch up, ten minutes on the bus is far too little!’.

so i was like ‘cool. when’s good for you?’

That was Feb 24th and haven’t heard anything since.

- Any other short details that might be helpful

I’m 34 and she’s 23 or so.
Timmy 3:29 am

haha another report… must mean another launch is on the way? well let’s see what we have here
Alex 3:29 am

Hey Race and Christian good job guys- this sounds interesting. I’d like to leave a comment to try to get some personal coaching.

My confidence is great right now, I’m doing many interesting things in life and having great fun. I’m in University, and everything is going well except for the girl situation. I can get girls, working with your stuff and the natural game I have built by myself, but I have really high standards, and only few girls actually meet them. There is this one girl that blows me away completely, and everytime I see her, we have a good convo and I say that we should meet up. I have no classes with her, and my uni is huge so I’ve only bumped into her a couple of times, the latest a couple of weeks ago. I’ve sent her a message asking for coffee over facebook but I’ve got no reply. I have her number and am wondering if you could help me get a date with her by text game. Thanks guys
TonyD 3:31 am

Philip, sounds like you’re a purist. And that’s cool in one way, but I have two thoughts…

1.) what process do you enjoy?

2.) what results do you want?

Some guys are real hardcore about being good at pickup… me I just wanna have girls in my bed and not work too hard at it. If Race has a good way of doing that, then my man, I’m all ears.
jim 3:35 am

How you met her
Fraternity rush party/First year university

How Long:
6months

Have you had any exchanges:
I have tried start conversation with her many times but that was back then where I was playing the very hard to get game, where I toss random texts here and then not very relevant or try too hard to be funny etc. I always get a response when I ask her for specific help on stuff, but never reply when I try to start or try to continue a conversation for the conversation sakes. I have invited her to group dinner before, she looked and felt like was gonna flake but did show up, I tried to follow up with messages but no reply. She is extremely gorgeous, smart, and rich, gets hit on all the time, so I dont know what my strategy should be.

How I got the number:
She offered it to me indirectly, we had fun at the party we met, and I have a good reputation with her friends.

I can give you the whole story in detail. I need help!!!!!!
Rob M 3:37 am

hey Race here’s my situation. I’m a little older (late twenties) and pretty successful, but I find that getting girls’ numbers is no guarantee of anything happening.

Right now, there are a few girls I’m interested. The one I like most, I think I pushed it too hard with her. I had about eight exchanges with her and I don’t know what’s up but she just stopped responding. If you have anything about that I’d love to hear it.

Thanks,
Rob
Travis 3:45 am

Good stuff. I’m pretty set for girls right now but just wanted to say that this looks promising. Clearly you know your stuff sir!
Alex 3:49 am

Adding on my earlier post- I forgot to post when I met her:

When: I met her in frosh week,
How Long: About a year and a bit
Exchanges: We’ve had about 4 or 5 exchanges, she seems to be interested in me, but I’ve been a bit nervous when I’ve seen her so the real me hasn’t come out with her or in my messages. I know I could get her with your help guys thanks
Richard G. 3:55 am

I met her about a year ago. I planned a trip to the beach with a friend and she said she was going to tell her sister. Her sister took a girl friend. The girl is the sister’s friend.

That first day I met her we were like on fire..the chemistry between us was great, but it turned out she had a boy friend, so I didn’t try anything on her but to keep playfully flirting.

She broke up with her bf about a week ago, and I heavily kissed with her for about 20 minutes one day we went out with some friends. I was leaving her at home and there was when it happened.

Now, she had been texting me very frequently before we kissed, after that we txted some more for 2 days. Then I waited for her to text me, but she didn’t. Today I waited again until around 9 to text her. She is leaving to boston tomorrow for a week.

here is what i texted her:

Me: Heyy my love (in spanish lol) how are you?
her: I am good honey just got out of work. and you?
Me: I am good. Just finished dinner. text me when you get home, driving and txting is pretty dangerous lol.

She has not responded yet.

Yesterday I told her if she was getting out of work early, and she asked why. I told her “to see you for a little bit”. and she said “awww lol. I can’t tonight. I have been getting home pretty late for the past few days and my dad is pissed” I just kept talking to her and didnt mention anything about seeing her.

I want to keep the fire on while she is in boston.

I really want to keep seeing her, but I don’t want to demonstrate too much to her.
Antarktika 3:55 am

I agree that cold pick up in bars results in lots of talk but mostly going home without a girl. And I can pretty much open any set. Yet, most women I dated, I met online and some keyboarding was involved.
So I am really interested to learn advanced txting. It sounds like a great time saver and a productive way to date!
Aryeh 4:00 am

Wow, I needed this BAD. My flat mate is awesome at these texts things but I suck! I always have to ask his advice. I’ve got a lot better at the pickup but I tried sending an email on my own to a girl I’d slept with who is now in different country. She wrote back BRUTALLY (I’m not exaggerating) telling me us sleeping together was a one off and I should only contact her if we are in the same country. She implied that I was needy and I obviously wanted way more than her.

So thanks for this, I should get right on it.
gman 4:10 am

I am liking this already. And sadly I don’t know if any of the girls in my phone book would write back to me, I’ve been out of town for a while. But let’s see what else you’ve got.
Rafael 4:20 am

perfect..!
been looking for text game lately..!
s.a.s. 4:33 am

- How you met her

acquaintances in high school, but never hunt out.

- How long you’ve known her

4 years. but hung out for the first time a week ago.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?

some facebook im, one date.

- Any other short details that might be helpful

date seemed to go reallly well, but i’m always the one initiating facebook chat and she doesn’t seem very text receptive
Howard 4:42 am

exactly what I’m looking for right now… I don’t know man, ALL the numbers in my phonebook are pretty nonresponsive. haha if you could even get one of them to respond to me, I’d be shocked.
Albert O. 5:10 am

How you met her
At a Halloween party(she was one of the only sober girls there but there was something about her I liked)
- How long you’ve known her
well from November till Now!
- Have you had any exchanges so far?
We have gone on 3 dates since I have met her yet we have exchanged text messages every few days in between dates to get the attraction going. She has given me many indicators of interested like for example Ill roleplay thta we have kids and the whole marriage thign and she will respond with “thats why I married you, you are so nice and understand me” Pretty much goes along and plays into my frame which is what i want. My problem though, is that sometimes she will either not respond to my texts, and other days she will immediately. Anther weird thing is she will be excited to see me and ill set up the date and everything, then when its the day of and I text her to confirm, she doesn’t answer. This has happened 3 times where she flakes on the basis of not answering back. It doesn’t make sense to me as we are not complete strangers and I know she likes me. I am stuck and need to know what I can do or say that can avoid this weird cat and mouse game where I am making all of the investment in texting her first and prevent future flakes as I do like this girl and I can feel it and gauge that she does as well

Hope I can get some advice Loved the report BTW!!
Dan L. 5:16 am

Hey there,

I have a really sticky situation that I want to see if I can salvage. This might be a challenge that you guys might wanna take on.

There is this girl I hooked up with on the last night of my Cruise during spring break. She goes to an University in Arizona and I go to an University in LA. We met at a late night pastry shop that people on the cruise go to after partying in the club on the cruise.

We talked for an hour and we were supposed to go watch the sunrise together. We went to my room to get a jacket and things spontaneously happened. We jumped on my bed and things happened. She didn’t want to have sex (said she doesn’t really know me) but we did Everything else. next morning we fooled around a couple of times all around the boat. She gave me her number and went back to her room as it was time for us to leave. I saw her later as we were going through customs and we talked for a little bit.

However, I texted her a couple days later and she didn’t respond. She answered her phone once when I called but she couldn’t hear me because it was loud and she didn’t call me back or respond to my subsequent text. It sucks because she was really mesmerized with me that night and I really liked her. She’s my type physically and personality wise.

I feel like I might have ruined it by being needy the morning after, but I didnt know if I was. If there’s anything you can do to help me on this one that would be very appreciated!
Rich 5:18 am

-How you met her
- How long you’ve known her
- Have you had any exchanges so far?
- Any other short details that might be helpful

Dude, Im just fucking getting numbers like crazy, I need to know somegood fundamental shit here!

I meet girls at work, ive known them for 1-10 minutes, any exchanges…Yes and no(not yet), I meet them everywhere.
Rich 5:20 am

I meet girls at work, grocery stores, department stores, bus, while they are in line, while they are walking in the street, while they are at work, all over.
KC 5:21 am

How we met?
At a friends wedding
How long have I known her?
2.5 years
Any exchanges yet?
None for the last six weeks
Any other details?
We dated on and off for about two years, one consistently, then off
and on for 6 months, then another two months consistently. I have plenty of success with women but have decided that this is the girl I want so I’m ready to make a play for her again. She might be dating someone else but who cares, it’s all about attraction.
Chris 5:36 am

ok… there are couple of girls I would appreciate your input in…
Girl 1: – We’ve had a couple of classes together the past two school years
- about a year and a half
- Yeah, but usually very light exchanges. Things about class etc., me trying to get her to laugh.
-For some reason, this girl is SUPER TOUGH! She lives off campus, and tends to keep to herself, except when she’s around other off campus people who she has built actual relationships with. I’ve sent her a couple of Fb messages, and she responds inconsistently to those. It always seems that in order to talk to her, I have to put in 120%, cause she usually doesn’t put much into the convo. HOWEVER: She doesn’t ignore me in class. When I offer to walk with her somewhere, she doesn’t refuse or try to get away from me. So how do I work my way in?

Girl 2: Similar story, but we are good friends. Yes, I’m in the friends zone! How can I text my way out?
lifestyle007 6:12 am

Hi Cris …

Just want to let you know my situation .For your info im asian n Last few week meet this white girl and get her number. After a few days texting her and she answer and we had a very small conversation.
Few days later again i text her for coffee and she just didn;t reply and seem to me this girl is starting to flake. Call her she doesnt pick up/ So i wrote to her like i was alittle angry like why shes not replying n say she does it on purpose bla bla.. // Then she reply im a pshyco ..

i appologize to her .. She reply // Shes not goin to forgive me.
so now i dont knw what to do and just let it be like that. its almost 1 month already. The weird thing when i add her in facebook. She accept me.

I totaly fuckup

Pls help

Thanks…
Gabe G 6:42 am

Hey guys!
I met this girl im interested in about 6 weeks ago. Shes great! She has a similar sense of humor as myself and can actually hold a conversation (pretty rare in girls i meet). We also “click” very well together. The problem is this: the night i met her, she had just gotten out of a 3 year relationship (the night i met her!). I know she needs time before shes ready to start up something mew with a new guy. But how much time does she need?

Weve had about 5 interactions and theyve all been great! We just laugh about everything and shes always smiling at me (uh!). Im in a fraternity and we have a date dash coming up in about a month and am considering asking her to be my date. It would be my first “real” date with her. Should I try for a date with her BEFORE the date dash or wait?

PLEASE HELP. im so lost with her and dont want her to dismiss me cuz i didnt make a move!

Loved the report btw. Im definitely gonna be using those “odd time increment” things! hope u dont mind lol.
Jordan Mohler 12:24 pm

So there’s this girl I met from class. I decided to man up and talk to her on the first day of class (we have 3 month semesters). Added her on FaceBook and got her number. Now we’ve been talkin off and on for awhile and I haven’t made my intentions clear yet (a date, maybe more) so she hasn’t “rejected” me yet. But when I go to “ask her out”, she doesn’t flake, she just doesn’t reply to the text. But other times, she’ll reply and we have a good convo…
Lance 12:32 pm

Hey Race

I’m and much older guy and looking to date some young woman , I’m doing the online thing and geting a lot of emails but most of the woman don’t reply back will your texet game work online ?
Brendan 12:56 pm

Hey Guys,
So I met a girl about a month ago while tutoring groups for Organic Chemistry. A few weeks ago I ran into her outside of class, we hung out and just clicked. I spent time in her building playing some games and looking at pictures of each other’s families, had dinner with her twice, and I’ve been talking to her more and more, actually texting her all throughout the day several day of the week and getting together 2 or 3 times a week. I’ve become attracted to this girl more and more and have lost interest in all the other girls I’ve been seeing. I figure getting better at my text game is by far the best shot I have.

Other things I’ve considered are that in one of our first encounters she mentioned her (on campus) boyfriend, but other than that he only comes up casually every so often when he’s relavant to what we’ve been talking about and doesn’t stay part of the conversation. Nonetheless she responds to almost all of my texts within a minute, is incredibly receptive when I see her, she’s flirty pretty often, and has only flaked on me once.
Brendan 1:26 pm

I was so eager to post that I forgot a sign-off point!

Of course, I really appreciate your enthusiasm and willingness to spread the wealth of knowledge you both have. I’m really looing forward to hearing back from you guys.

Thanks!

Brendan W.
Monk . 3:42 pm

Great work kids! Keep the laboratory open because we all have a lot of room to improve.

I don’t have a request, but instead an offer. Your video is fine, better than most PUA’s actually, but like my text game it could use a little professional help. Next time you’re on the East coast give me a ring and I’ll come out and help you put together something that will blow you away. I’ll write it off and we’ll consider it a gift to you and the community.

Cheers!
Mark 4:42 pm

- How you met her
I met her at a bar one night.

- How long you’ve known her
I’ve known her for a few months.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
I’ve had several exchanges with her. Texting is the main way we’ve been communicating. I’m having trouble getting her alone and escalating.

- Any other short details that might be helpful
When I first met her, she was really receptive and we went on a few dates, then she would cancel or flake. Then when I didn’t communicate with her for a while, she would text me wanting to meet, but not alone on a date, she would want to meet in a group setting at a bar or club. Then recently, I ran into her, not planning to, at a bar and she messaged me the next day wanting to meet in a group setting. I want to be able to meet with her alone and get sexual.
Gianni 7:26 pm

I met her through a mutual friend at the college I attend.

I’ve known her for 6 months maybe. Casually dated her for the first 2 or 3 months of knowing her.

Ya I was slaying her for a those first few months, but I got kind of needy, and we slowly started hanging out less and less. We’re friendly around campus, and her best friend is one of my really good friends, but I want another shot at her and I can’t figure out how. I bbm her every now and then, but our relationship isn’t sexual anymore.

She’s a very attractive, slightly alternative (vegan, hippyish) girl, and I’m a hard-partying frat guy. I could really use the help.
Dave F 7:31 pm

The Cliff Notes
I met her over New Year’s Eve with her friend (whom I met at another club a while ago). We’ve bumped into each other a couple of other times. We tried meeting up for coffee a couple of times but she ends up flaking. We still exchange facebook messages and texts now and then, most of them flirty.

The Details
I met her over New Year’s Eve at a bar so I guess I’ve known her 3 months. Another girl I met at a club a few months ago brought her along when I invited her to a party.

After meeting her randomly at another bar, our exchanges consisted of a lot of teasing facebook messages and posts. She soon gave me her number and we’ve texted quite a bit and spoke on a couple of occasions. She asked me out for coffee/dinner once but that didn’t work out because she was sick and I was about to go away on a business trip.

We settled on another time to meet up but the week of she stopped answering her phone so I figured she wasn’t interested any longer.

I got a random text from her over St. Patty’s day and, somehow we were in the same area again. Met up with her briefly but there were a lot of people around so there wasn’t that much interaction between us. There hasn’t been any follow up (other than the random facebook status teases) here and there.
Jonny 7:37 pm

Hey guys, hope you can help me out..

-How I met her? Through a mutual friend

-How long have I known her? A year, give or take.

- Have you had any exchanges so far? Many. I asked her out about a month after meeting her, she declined, we’ve been friendly ever since.

- She’s 23 and just recently got out of a relationship with her childhood sweetheart. I’m 25, a virgin and have never been in a relationship. She’s Muslim, I’m half-Jewish. She’s told me that hanging out with me makes her feel like a kid again.. It seems that lately she’s developed a certain level of comfort around me. I know that I need to build attraction, but I just don’t know where to start.

Thanks for listening

And thanks for the report, very insightful.
Bminator 9:47 pm

Hey, its great to see the examples race gave. I have high expectations of the content and techniques that are gonna come later.

Here’s my story. Met through mutual friend(the easiest way to meet, no cold approach!) She was amazing, flirtatious, responded positively all night. End of the night I get her number. I get a “I have a boyfriend, but I’ll give it to you just in case”. The boyfriend situation was preempted by our mutual friend, so its legit, but it hadn’t come out of her mouth until I asked for her number. Send her a message the following night that was pretty embarrassing after analyzing it. Timeframe: met last Friday send embarrassing message Saturday, no response. Then Monday get a great response to a message, but text convo never takes off. I really have no idea what I need to do or how to proceed in this situation, but I think race might have some ideas.

Thanks again for the examples, can’t wait for more.
A. 9:58 pm

I read 2 insightful things that could help with my txt game in the 15 page pdf summary of ur new txt book that’s coming out soon. Big ups to u for those creative ideas, the book should come out to be as successful as ur window shopping for women book.

Also if you need another beta tester, i would love to read it and write u a testimonial. let me know whats up.

Thanks,

.A
Nick 11:03 pm

This. is. exactly what i want!

haha really Race i was grinning the whole way through this report. only been into pickup for about 4months, havnt done that many cold approaches but enough to get a few numbers, and from reading about female sexual psychology i have been fuckin around and amping it up in my texts, results have been pretty mind blowing to my old way of thinking… “declaring a chick as my saucy saucy sex slave of the seven seas on the pirate ship she asked me to build’ went down very well, and i’d only met her once before!

however, these sexual texts are one side. and i havnt really been bothered how they worked out in the name of practice… on the complete flip side i’va had girls ive got with, and dated and then i think ive screwed it up due to lack of keeping my text game up, Ie different light hearted and exiting/mysterious. in exchange for dull factual wanna see you shit.. (dont ask me why! kick myself when i think of it!)

anyway the result is i really wanna win back this one girl ive slept with a couple of times, but i know shes also an open dater. basicly gotta outshine the other doosh and as she lives a couple of hrs away n we dont really do the phone thing… this leaves YOU! or me, which i will of course settle and work with.. but, your aid in this pursuit would be humbling plus flip some good karma your way when im back with this fine lady!

in general txts are great fun. i enjoy them and know first hand how much you can spice up a girls day with them! looking forward to seein what you’ve done!

cheers

PEACE!
Aaron 11:18 pm

First of all I want to say this stuff is very intriguing. However, I am curious if it will work for someone who is a bit older. In any case, here is my story.

-How you met her

I met this really gorgeous half asian half french girl at a house party last week. She was with a date. I didn’t have a lot of time to connect with her but I did get a chance to get her phone #. She is very intelligent and a tough nut to crack. I feel like every text she sends is a test of sorts. I could be wrong, but I would love to hear your opinion. I have been out of the dating scene for almost a year (was seeing if it would work with this other girl but it didn’t end up panning out). So I would be very excited to see if this system could help me pass her tests and lock down a date with this girl who is obviously being pursued by several guys at the moment.

- How long you’ve known her

Only 1 week but never been on a date with her.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?

A few texts but it doesn’t seem to be going any where. She seems either resistant or testing me to see if I can keep up with her.

- Any other short details that might be helpful

She lives about an hour away so it might be more difficult for me to get her to meet up for a date.
Dennis 12:56 am

Alright guys, here are the details

- How you met her
Through a friend in college

- How long you’ve known her
A handful of years but with limited contact

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
We run into each other every now and then, we had a short random text convo, we tried to meet up at a club we were both already planning on heading to AND when she got there she missed me cuz my back was turned. To be completely honest, I turned around and saw her glance at her phone for a second but she walked off

- Any other short details that might be helpful
She gave me her number under her own initiative. Since we missed each other at the club I’ve gotten brain freeze on how to re-establish just casual contact. What do you think?
Trick 1:45 am

Loved the pdf Race, really good stuff; Can’t wait for the program to come out… have actually posted a topic on TSM forum asking specifically about text game lol so was really excited to hear this was coming out.

- How you met her (how I got her number)

Couple days ago doing laundry in our dorm building.

- How long you’ve known her

Have seen her around on my floor occasionally during the school year (am in college). She’s Suitemates with an acquaintance who I spontaneously had lunch with a couple months ago but never really hung out with this group of girls yet.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?

She gave me her number, just texted her a couple minutes later saying “Hey its (trick), here’s my number so you have it.”
Her – ha thanks

- Any other short details that might be helpful

Talked (in person) about how we were both going away for the weekend but that we’d hang out the weekend after or something. Liked her vibe but she’s always seemed kind of reserved to me. Gorgeous, as are all of her suitemates. Also been facebook friends with her for a couple months but have just basically only said hi to her in the hallway. Her suitemate I said I had lunch with has a boyfriend, so no jealousy or any complications there. Dont know if this girl has a bf… Was thinkin about seein if she wanted to grab lunch sometime before the weekend.

That’s the lowdown, look forward to more of your stuf.
Aaron 2:13 am

I just want to say, you guys are amazing, definitely helped me a lot!

OK, so I’ve known this girl for about a semester and a half, and I actually met her, when my roommate brought her over for a movie (so it kinda makes me weary to ask her since he blew her off). I’ve had some exchanges because I sit next to her in one of my classes. She is a sorority girl if that helps any with the details.

Thank you!
Evan 3:16 am

So yea, I’m pretty skeptical here.

I know this girl that I’ve been into for awhile. We met over a year ago here at college but have only seen each other around campus 4 or 5 times since then. I have her number and have tried texting but it just doesn’t go anywhere. I’m not looking to make things awkward but I don’t know what else could happen.

If you have any tips on how to get the ball rolling, that would be amazing!

Thanks for reading!
tom 7:17 am

How you met her (how I got her number)

my cousin (female) met her at a salon and told her about me and then one day i went to meet her and get my haircut…met her and she was really cool down to earth person to talk to, and very pretty. After several meetings i asked for her number and she gave it to me.

How long you’ve known her

i figure i known her for about 8-9months now

Have you had any exchanges so far?

yes, we would text often…we’d even talk on the phone for sometimes 2-3 hours at a time! we planned to go out a get a drink but she was flaky…with the calls i thought it was going good and then one day Bam! no more texting or calls…

Any other short details that might be helpful

she is always saying that she is busy b/c she runs her own place and is always booked..which is why she would flake, she was tired…she would call and we’d talk/flirt on the phone, i dont know, i feel like giving up but i really dont want to. Thanks for the help guys.
Christian 6:31 pm

I was out with some friends at a bar the night after St. Patty’s day. Don’t judge… Anyways two girls walk by and my friend tells them to meet me. A girl friend of mine assures them I’m an awesome guy so then we immediately hit it off. She was giving me ton’s of ioi’s and I even went back to her apartment but didn’t do anything cus we were with friends.
I’ve known her for almost two weeks and we tried meeting up at the clubs last Thursday but when she saw me in the club she was dancing with another guy so I said hi then left dumbfounded. We’ve texted back and forth but yesterday she didn’t answer my call. She’s the first really cute and fun girl I’ve attracted in a while so any help would be appreciated.
Jon 9:43 pm

So, I may be older than your average reader… 37.
Meeting women and getting numbers is no problem, but as a single parent and business owner, my time is super limited, and getting together or talking on the phone is not always possible.
Living in a college town, many of the women I meet are younger and use texting as their main form of commuincation.
Jon 9:45 pm

I am curious more about your system, as I don’t text much, Always have preferred talking in person, but see the need to develop this skill if I want to continue to meet multiple women, and keep them interested even when I can not go out every night,
Doug 12:10 am

When texting, i love drawing a woman into my “points system”…. she can earn 2 points, lose 2 points… etc. I find that by being cheeky with this, I can have HER begin to ramp up the innuendo rather than me to try to earn points off me, and I can turn that around as if she is the forward one trying to pick me up.

Love it.
Kelso 12:18 am

I cant take this guy seriously. Here is another taller good looking guy teaching pickup? You have to be kidding me. I am really sick of this….
Mufasa 8:46 am

- How you met her
in a nightclub, first night I moved to Melbourne

- How long you’ve known her
Met her 3 weeks ago

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
We had sex ( a lot.. lol) , spent the whole next day together and she said she had a great time. We exchanged some texts about our day at work, annoying bosses, how we should meet up for a kangaroo steak.. etc.. casual stuff, nothing really sexual
Last message she sent she called herself a nerd, so I replied “I would rather say you are a Herd not a Nerd” (When she would ask what a herd is I would say Hot Nerd) but never heard back from her again..
Sent her another 2 texts over the following next days but no reply.

- Any other short details that might be helpful
I met a few other girls here but I had the best time with her, she is very hot and intelligent at the same time

Also tried calling a few times but no answer.

Should I stop trying?
Quintus 11:56 am

I adapted the dirty dream text from the report.

First text: OMG dirty dream.
second text: All about the mud
third text: Did I mention that after I pinned u down in the mud, I picked u up and pushed u against the tree and slowlhy began to slide my hands under ure clingy shirt
fourth: … to carefuly and calmly removed the dangerous and frighttening looking bug that had crawled up there…

… then next text went into, “u turned to me and said, You are my hero! and ….” etc etc.

Its just an extension of the original theme, u can drag it out for a lot longer though… building until u know there is enough tension.
Q
Albert O. 7:45 pm

Here is a recent exapmple I used on how to create interest through texting.

A.O.

“I texted a girl whom we have lacked alot of sexual tension so I tried opening her up with a roleplay text.

Me: Hey Honey, I am going to be in late tonight, make sure Justin goes to bed early

(She is a feisty woman too lol)

Her:Oh dont worry I am going to be in late too. Ill make sure to notify the nanny.

(went along with it)

Me: Oh they have you closing again! I called Juana but she is not answering her beeper

Her: No I am going out with friends. be a father and go home.

(she stands her ground so I playfully bite back)

Me: Well I better expect a meal I like on the table when i get home, or someone is getting a spankin’…and its not gonna be Justin!

Her: Uuuu we’ll see about that!

Notice how he is able to still communicate and get information from her still playing the role. For those of you who didn’t get it, role playing is all made up. You have to come up with your own fake names and story line.

Take it up a notch to whatever she is doing but not too aggressive just challenging.

Let me kn ow on your thoughts or anything to Add!!!
Michael Cort 7:53 pm

Love your concept. A lot of programs out there don’t go in depth about texting. I just used the dork example and she loved that playful cocky side of me. Would love to see more examples and download your program…
Andy H 10:47 am

I’m a divorced professional guy, late 40s. Met a special woman online almost 3 years ago, we dated for a while on and off, she was interested but couldn’t quite get to giving it a real go.

Since then we’ve emailed and had text contact, she loves texting. We share text jokes a lot, but I inadvertantly hit the wrong note 2 months ago with a joke she didn’t like – she bust my balls over it – and silence since.

This is a rare and special woman (she’s 45) – so any ideas on how to recover the rapport and move things on – would be greatly appeciated.

This is great stuff you’re sharing – thank you.

Regards Andy H
Rich 2:48 am

■Philip March 30th, 2010 3:04 am
Perhaps I am very old school, but when I get a girls
#, I expect to be able to speak with her. Anything less
and it was not really a solid number close.

And if my interaction with her was not solid enough
or I did not connect with her/impact her enough so
that she would want to speak with me again, why
would I think that I can text her into being attracted
to me and go on a date with me?

Seems like a very poor way to manage a social
interaction, your social life – like playing video
games, or for people who really do not know
who or what they want.

Good luck with your txt game.
/////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////////

I agree with you a bit, but they are teaching you how to get those weak phone numbers into your bed.

Talk to the girls, if they dont talk through phone then..that the lord for text!!!

I know my response to “Phil” was a really obvious response that anybody else would give, but I felt like it.
Sanjay 5:53 pm

Hey guys so this is a bit of a random one because the girl i met was from using race’s advice in window shopping for women
we kept in touch by text now and and again for months now
(got her number last year but didnt do anything about it until recently) but we havent met up yet.

what should i do?
Mark 3:43 am

Okay, so I met this girl at the casino playing three card poker at 11:00 am last Wednesday. My buddy and I figured we’d check the casino, it’s new and you can smoke in there. She is very cute and tight. After chatting with her for awhile I found out she was 32 years old (I’m 29 look like I’m 23 oldest) she sold her chain of tanning salons and is basically retired and loaded. My buddy brought up that he is getting married in July and that’s where I found out that she is married to a full time working lawyer and has 5 step kids (none of her own). So she is obviously bored with her current situation (her husband is 50) and she has a lot of time on her hands. My buddy took off and I hung out with this girl and we went and grabbed lunch and drank beer at a pub. We started discussing how we could start our own brothel with crack whores and make legit (all roll playing of course). She brought up that if the whores OD we can drop them through a trap floor and feed them to the pigs that live in the tunnels that run under the brothel… morbid and exciting… this girl is a wild one. She was showing me pictures of her hot friends and would like to hook me up. That’s cool n all but I like this girl, the married thing has got me a little flustered and excited at the same time.
She dropped me off at my car before she had to go home and make dinner for the family and told me to text her when I got back into town (I work out of town 6 months of the year and that makes it a little hard to hook up). So when I get home I was going to text something like:
- Hey, Robert Pickton is having a yard sale we have to check it out!!!
Should I continue on the morbidity? Approach the hook me up with your hot friends gig? Or cut my losses and abort the married girl situation? I could use a little advice on this one!!!

Peace,

Mark
Colin 9:56 pm

hey wat up chris and race. i jus got tht txtgame mastery book and the concepts in it seem good but theres only like 2 examples outta the entire book and those alone arnt rly helpin me with this chick ive been friends with for a year and its jus like im one of her other girl friends and im havin sum trouble escalatin. if u guys could, gimme sum txtin tips on where i should start cuz idk if she’d all of a sudden want sex jus cuz i tell her a dream about me and her or cuz i tell her to meet me at 6:03 instead of 6:00

plz help and get back to me

- colin
Alex 1:12 am

Those text examples were great. My issue is being able to think of something witty to say to a girl who I haven’t contacted in about a week. When I met her at a party last week she gave me the bf objection but still gave me her number (he must have had a moment of feeling guilty, especially in front of her friends). Now I’m not sure where to go from here. What to say in my first initiation…
Junker 9:30 pm

I’ve known this girl through our group of friends for about a year. When I first met her last year, I didn’t show any interest because I didn’t want to sword fight with every other guy. Just played the fun guy role and left it alone. I damn near disappeared from the group and particularly her about 8 months ago.

Three weeks ago, I show up at her best friend’s birthday party. She comes up to me right before she’s leaving and compliments me asking if I’ve lost weight. Then she leaves, Two weeks ago, I goto a “tear down the house party” that the group is throwing. She’s there. I lock into her for a little bit then go about the party the rest of the night. At the end of the night, I tell her goodbye and she says we need to hang out since I used to be around all the time and now I’m gone. (The reality was that I hung out with her and her friends for only a few weeks last summer but she has it in her mind that I was always around and then disappeared. I definitely felt like she was showing a lot of interest in me.) She gave me her number. We hung last Thursday at bingo (yeah she loved the idea of it) but I was a little off game because my ex showed up (first time I’ve seen her since the breakup 3 months ago). I feel like everything’s good and I’ve thrown a little bit of good text game already (which followed the number close and subsequently setup the first outing). I’d love some help to lock this situation down now.

Thanks!
Ricky 10:48 pm

Hey,
I guess this could help in a good few areas in technological game for me. Call it a blessing or a curse, but it seems our generation is more and more reliant on a less personal form of communication. Subtracting the visual physical interaction and aural aspect to merely text can lead to any number of interpretations if an English Literature class is any given indicator, so if you’ve got it down solid I want to know more…
Anyhow:
- met her first a long time ago, at elementary school. she’s the sister of my sister’s best friend, and introduced herself that way in an excited manner when bumping into me.
- I wouldn’t say I know her in any other physical face-to-face sense than those brief exchanges all the way back then and maybe a shopping trip a couple years later with said siblings. I’m 21 and must’ve met her when I was about 10. Technologically, however, we have been in contact on facebook and IM chat for year or so
- Yes, wall-to-wall history available
- A year older than I, we are both students at different campuses doing different subjects I believe (myself econ, her pol, i did a bit of pol). We share an affinity of enjoying going out to similar nights in terms of music policy and social groupings, so we chat a fair bit about that (underground dance music from the uk, i can divulge if necessary but just come here to london and go to fabric club)

Would be cool to move it to something better considering the history, affinity, same hometown and seeing as she’s just out of a relationship only a couple weeks after I got out of one. Opportunity bells I here ringing? Gotta celebrate the freedom after end of year exams somehow!
ronny 11:48 pm

Met this waitress hottie at work (a musical band bar), named Brenda. Been working here for only 3 weeks. The only exchange is an introductory smiley hello, and one day I also gave her a salutation when coming into work & asked for her name. No other exchanges…altho I’ve had exchanges with the other waitresses involving physical flirting which they enjoyed.

But unlike those other girls, Brenda is older than me (a cougar), probly in her early 40′s (I’m 29). I don’t know if she’s married. But i’d sure like to hookup with her. I don’t know how to turn this situation into me dating her (at least once or twice). But also not sure how to approach without embarrassing myself.
Doug messer 12:20 am

Yo, My name is doug and im 16 years old and am still in high-school. Ive never had problems getting girls (not to be cocky) and im a good looking kid. What I can never get to is getting the hot seniors from my school. almost eveyone in my school texts and I could use some help.

There’s this one girl who is by far one of the hottest in my grade. She is still kinda attached to her X boy friend who’s in college and having im a really hard time getting to her. We have known eachother for years and I just cant close her! If you could give me some help that would be awesome

Thanks
Doug
Garrison 4:09 am

Hey guys. So my issue is this. I met this girl last fall and we would talk and text and everything would be great but now she wont text me back and has flaked on me several times. Can you guys give me some advice to handle the situation. Thanks guys.
David 5:28 am

Sick report, excited to put it into practice!

- How you met her
Met her in my choir, and really connected with her at a party that same weekend.

- How long you’ve known her
about a month.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
We hit it off at that party, and hung out there for a long time. She was being very flirtatious, etc, and I got her number. I texted her once and we had a pretty okay exchange. I texted her again 3 different times over the next 5 days: no response.

- Any other short details that might be helpful
We really hit it off. Like really connected. And I think maybe I’m having a hard time conveying that connection via text. I’ve hinted at getting her to come hang out, but she was sick during that exchange. I have no idea where to go next, but I get the feeling she might be sort of bad at texting, if you know what I mean, because she asked me to sit with her at this recital I saw her at, and the first time I texted her she missed it, and texted me back like 2 days later, when I texted her again. Reeeallly want a date with this girl, she’s funny, quirky, exciting: everything I like in a woman.
Brent 7:38 am

Race that report was dank.

My situation:

- How you met her:
She sat next to me on the plane on our trip home for spring break. I’d say some good rapport was developed because both of us were getting our books and ipods out to start reading when I introduced myself to her and we spoke for nearly the entire 1 and a half hour flight.

- How long you’ve known her:
About a month

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
Nothing in person other than running into her at the gym a few times during the first week of the quarter. Haven’t seen her in about 2 weeks. A few Facebook chats where she seemed only halfway interested in me. I invited her to a party I was hosting over the weekend but she flaked.

- Any other short details that might be helpful
She’s a Freshman in one of the hotter sororities on campus and is pretty good looking herself. She’s friends with lots of other guys and gets hit on and flirts with a lot of them mostly other Freshmen while I’m a second year.
Kellen 9:09 am

Race, need some help with this girl I know. You expertise would be awesomely helpful.
Emanuel 2:46 pm

- How you met her ?
I met her through school, she had locked herself out of her room and I had access to her building through work so I let her in.

- How long you’ve known her 
I’d say its been about two weeks now.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?
Yea we’ve been talking on Facebook, I helped her out with a Job posting but beside that she is trying to cut me out – I got her number and texted her a request of the Employer and she just asked to directly connect me to them rather than being the middle man – no word since then.
 
- Any other short details that might be helpful
I dont think there is much else to the whole thing, it just seems like there is not much chance for me actually to open her up to a meet and great. She tends to close up unless its something that I can offer for her advancement and since I dont want to “buy” her into it or work for her I have kept in contact but its still missing a connection.
Ted 4:06 pm

You people are good. In addition, I am grateful.

- How you met her?

I have a few “hers” on the line but if I have to choose just one, I met “her” at school. I am a returning University student. Beautiful women surround me. Considering I am twice most of their age, more than a few catch my eye. I use the list server offered through my classes to initiate “study sessions”. This is how I met “her”.

- How long you’ve known her?

I’ve known her since January of this year. I carried her through a very difficult subject last quarter. After failing the first exam, she was ready to drop the class. To me dropping the class meant my chances of dropping her in bed were to vaporize. That wasn’t going to happen. I convinced her to stay and she did so well she received a higher mark than I did. She is so grateful.

- Have you had any exchanges so far?

Yes! It’s a new quarter and we’ve stayed in contact ever since our last class. This chick is so hot. Her eyes melt everyone. Every time we kick it, hours go by. She mentioned setting up a workout schedule together. She has a boyfriend and occasionally reminds me.

- Any other short details that might be helpful?

She is young but she insists she is old.
She acts happy but is obviously available.
She invited me to a speed-dating event and insisted I go.
She responds to every message I send.

That’s it Race. Thanks for whatever help you people think you can offer. I’m good at this stuff already but if you can manage to pull this one off, I will personally start a cult for the both of you. I can see it now, donations pouring in with me as the messenger.
jo 6:08 pm

Hey Chris and race,
I cold approach this chick a month ago at the gym. I have had some exchanges with her through text messages. The last time I text, I was flirty in the text, she did not reply my text. Maybe she misinterpreted my text. I will really appreciate any tip that will alleviate this situation.
Carlos 8:05 pm

Met this girl over 3 months ago online. She volunteered her number. Went out once for the first time last week, had great game, she was quite interested but brief encounter. Invited her out last weekend and she said she already had plans. Ignored her. Been texting in a playfully and teasing manner this week, what can I do to close the deal this weekend?

Thanks a lot, man. Your book rocks!! Keep them coming!
jeremy 9:11 pm

what to say to chic that has not responded to last couple of text’s-met once at a bar and once at walmart a few days later-(she offered her number to me-)and both encounters were brief, about 5-10 minutes.
Bryce 10:21 pm

just tried the anecdote on having a dirty dream; not quite word for word but the same concept. here are the responses

-girl 1- hahahahaha thats something we would do! haha and I hope you would beat me or else thats pretty sad.
-me- see now i want to go mud wrestling.
-girl 1- lets do it
-me- If i won the loto I would put a mud wrestling pit in my backyard.
-girl 1- you dont have much room in your backyard. just fill your pool with mud! that way we can get down and dirty

next

same walking through the forest anecdote

-girl 2- dang thats seriously th most random dream i’v ever heard. haha sooooo funny
-me- ya i wasnt even sure i was going to tell you. I woke up and was like uhh? i should take a shower to get the mud off me <(not that funny)
-girl2- its all good. I deff was expecting worse. I just got to work though ill ttyl

worked better on the first girl, but I still liked it. thanks alot.
Logan 10:36 pm

whatsup i’m Logan and I’m not the best with girls….I don’t mean to come off as arrogant, but I’m a pretty good-looking guy (which I know doesn’t mean much). My problem is that I don’t know what to say through text messages and end up sending boring things like “what are you doing” or “what do you have planned for tomorow” and sooner or later we both end up getting bored and just stopped texting….I would love to learn Race’s techniques and be able to hook up with girls easily.
Ronnie 11:50 pm

- How you met her? She works at an old job where I still have lots of friends.

- How long you’ve known her? We’ve been acquaintances for a while but just started hanging out the last week or so.
- Have you had any exchanges so far? She took interest in me and started contacting me a little over a week ago. We hung out that night and made out a bit but it was a bad time of the month to seal the deal. The next day she tells me that she isn’t looking for a relationship at the moment because she just got out of a long term but still wants to hang out. We hang out a couple times more over the week and she is all over me at the bar. We end up hooking up after a week or so of this while she is dead sober and the next day she says she just wants to be friends.
- Any other short details that might be helpful. We’ve been playing games the whole time. The way I see it she feels a bit guilty about what happened. I want to reassure her and ease the tension and try and draw her back in.
MisterSofty 12:34 am

First date, amazing chemistry, been almost two weeks, always busy, only every other text msg I initiate results in back and forth messaging. Here’s my story:

Apr 7
Met this girl online, exchanged emails, and pics and agreed to meet.

Apr 11
It was just going to be a quick “sanity check” meetup for lunch that turned into an all day sightseeing and all night partying affair.

She came hard but unfortunately, the whiskey kicked in shortly thereafter and I went limp.

Usually the whiskey’s not a problem but everytime I have a good chemistry with a girl, it affects me as such.

I thought about my performance, or lack thereof, but figured since she came, and it was chilly in that alley (long story) that she’d understand and give me a second chance.

Apr 13
I waited a day and then texted her, no response.

Apr 14
Tried again the next day, said she was going out of town for a few days and had to work on Saturday.

Apr 19
So Monday I asked about meeting up for lunch, no response.

Apr 20
She responds by saying she has to work but offers to do something in the evening. My evenings are booked this week so we agree to meet late this Sunday. This Sunday will be two weeks removed from my torrid performance

Is texting even applicable here? btw I’m a real skeptic on these things b/c what works for some may not work for others.

Sincerly,

Mr. Softy
David 1:06 am

I just met this pretty sexy female at my friends b-day party. I texted her the next day asking her to join me for lunch, she was busy. Now today, a couple days later I texted her ” hey, sexy we should get together soon I’m starting to forget what you look like” she replies “I work and not to be rude but i’ve heard that before” I feel like i just lost this girl and theres no redeeming myself. Can you help?
Jas 1:08 am

So a girl I’ve known from way back, some history got in touch last June. We’ve been txt, im, little phone calls though ever since. We had plan to meet up on Friday. Recently, say last week, we haven’t been as chattie, like the ongoing conversation isnt’ there, like say 2 wks ago. We are meeting in a neutral area. An hr drive for her 3 hrs for me, I’ve got a gig there this weekend. How can I get her to still show up on Friday for lunch? She’ll be working. I’d be great to get her to show as I have not seen her in 5 yrs.
Amos Jamison 2:03 am

So there is this girl who is a senior at my college. I am a sophmore. I started talking to her a while ago on facebook and she initially showed a degree of interest and flirting with me. We stoped talking for a while ecause I never could get her to come over or hang out back then. I know she likes to laugh and if I can get her to laugh with a text message she would be more open to hang out and give me an opportunity. She is your typical girl who every single guy is after so I know i got to stand out please help me out.
karim 4:11 am

Hey
So how do i get the material?
thx
Michael 10:34 am

Good stuff.
Hope to read more from you
Jay 10:58 am

Hey Race and Christian,
Here’s my story. I’m not too sure if an awesome text game is good enough to fix this but here goes nothing.

Met her online, had a few dates with her and asked her to be my girlfriend and was rejected. I was cool, left her life for a bit to cool off.

Now I’m back in her life, I text her a couple of times and she usually replies all flirty but when I call she doesn’t pick up. I don’t know how exactly to ask her out again without sounding desperate and I don’t really know if I have already been relegated to the “will never have a chance” zone so like I said I’m not sure if even A++ text game will work here but I’m willing to give it a shot.

I’m 22 she is 24.

Have a great week guys!

Cheers,
Jay
Miles 10:34 pm

Hey Race, I had this incredible dream too but it was with the babe you are with in the black n white photo. Can I get her number?
There is this hot lady I met in Walmart but she would only give me her e-mail. She’s slow to respond and acts like she isn’t interested in dating. Seems like a game player which I hate but she’s so hot. She called me to cancel a date because it was too close to the time for an e-mail so I have her number. I think this is a good time to switch the game plan with text. Could use some suggestions on a way to go about it.
miles
marvin 11:24 pm

How you met her? i met her at my friend’s birthday party at a bar

How long you’ve known her? since February

Have you had any exchanges so far? we exchange text messages a bit and had one phone call

Any other short details that might be helpful ?

i invite her to a hangout with me and few friends but couldn’t go because she was out of state. every time we text she seems to into it but im think im at a point to make a move by askeing her todo something with me
Mike 3:33 am

How you met her?
I met her in a dance/night club

How long you ‘ve know her?
I guess about three weeks.

Have you had any exchanges so far?
Well I called her three days after we met in nightclub but she didnt pick up. I recorded a message to call me back but didnt receive any call from her. After one week, I texted her to meet me sometime at cafe….but she didnt reply…!!!

Any other short details?

Well as I told earlier that we met in the dance club and I started dancing with her. She seemed to enjoy dancing with me and we had great conversation. She told me that she was from the same university in which I am but different major. One thing she mentioned that she has a boyfriend and cant make out with me. I was like that its ok and may be I can meet with your single friends. At the end, I asked for her number and she entered digits in my phone.
Later, I just checked her online profile and found nothing about any boyfriend. Usually girls mention their bf on their pages etc. Secondly, if she is so faithful to her bf, why did she give me her number? These things are kinda telling me that she might be lying or whatever. Either way, I see chance to meet with new singles of my university.
I need you help to open her up and get responses from her. Please suggest some advice
John 1:43 pm

One of the things I’ve noticed is that some girls only text whereas others want you to call them at some point (especially if you are asking them out). If I’m generalizing, I’ve found girls under 25 rarely talk on the phone, and girls over 30 prefer a call. What I have yet to do is figure out a way to identify a girls preference.
HIten 3:42 pm

Whats the best way to deal with this situation?

how i met her?
We work together

How long have i know her?
about 4 years now.

Any exchanges?
nothing much expect the usual flirting.

More info…
When i met her i was in a relationship and the girl i was with also works in the same place as us. since ive broke up with her the other girl i like now has been showing more interest but every time i try texting or calling her she is none responsive. face to face shes warm and friendly. what should i do?
0rion 4:02 pm

I’m in when can I get the system and whats the price tag (be gentle)
josh Goodman 6:54 pm

I met this girl at a party. Got her number for a date but she flaked out. I just texted her today and she answered. I know she likes me and her friends all know me. She a younger college girl. Not sure what I shout text her in order to get a date.
0rion 6:57 pm

This is a good gambit maybe their is room for it in the system maybe not. You at this point I don’t go for the phone number EVER so I’m interested in how this this system is going to tighten my sarge.

Notice of something stylish or out of the ordinary that shes wearing jewelry works well. I ask if I can take a look at it up close. If they say no then pretty much you haven’t established enough comfort (moving on) One this that totally right on is the standing out aspect. When she lets you see it flip out your camera and take a pic of the jewelry; often get asked “what are you doing?” standard response: “You want to stand out from all the others don’t you?” So about 3 hours or so latter I sent a txt/pic message
of the jewelry and with the standard message: Your IT! ;o) (<= very much open for group calibration) I get a message back always most of the time with-in 10 min.

Dose 2 things:
Makes the first communication a non-issue
Clears the number when I call they know its number or when I call.

Still a phone guy at this phase.

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fingaz 10:46 pm

Hmm, can’t seem to get the file to open. It says it’s damaged.
Corey Taylor 2:31 am

I met this girl in my computer lit class this semester, and we’ve been talking on and off and I was able to secure her number. But i’ve been talking with an old friend and was hitting it off with her but was struck with being put in the friendzone (She called me buddy as in hey buddy) so while im talking with the girl in my class and txting her, i’d like to prevent being too nice and ending up in the dreaded friend zone.
I’ve known her since december she is definitely single we’bve talked on and off and txt occasionally.
David 5:52 am

Okay so here’s the case, it is a very funny and different way that I picked up a girl simply by using humor.

Well a female classmate that I have, we decided to walk around campus and pretend like I was a deaf person, which worked out very well since I know sign. We then walked up to a group of people and there was one female that I was very attracted and she showed signs of interest, but I couldn’t really do what I actually wanted to because I was “deaf” at the moment

So today I saw her again with my female classmate (shes an awesome wing) and I talked her whole expression was “OH MY GOD! and she burst out laughing for about 5 minutes. The three of us all talked for about an hour or so and it went very good and from there I got her number. I just don’t know when the proper day would be to text her, got her number thurs night.
Alex I 6:36 am

How u met her.

We met at my fathers bowling league where i help out.

How long have you known her.

Not too long met in September 2009.

Any Excahnges?
in phone numbers? no but im workin to it i talk to her (and her teammates, 3 guys) every time they play (once a week) but we talk often

More info…
A bit of a tough one. Shes 6 years older than I, (shes 23 im 18 in about a month). She dates one of her teamates. I try and be flirty as often as possible without being too obvious. Talk on facebook often. Easy to make her laugh ( im quite good at that). Did i mention shes really hot?? haha
I want to get her number, but not sure how to get it. Possibly escalate quickly.
Ephraim Mansour 11:05 am

Basically here’s the situation:

I met her acouple days ago through Facebook. She randomly added me. We have a few mutual friends, but I’ve never met her in person.

I’ve “known” her for a couple of days. I sent her a message with the subject line “Great, another 80yr old creeper in disguise trying to seduce me.. ” and said: “Quick! What makes your dorky butt stand out from the crowd.” To which she responded: “lmaoooo i dont know im nothing special lol what about you?”

Here’s the part where I feel like I messed up.
I responded with:”Now I’m getting the “big dork” vibe from you
Me? Well, I’m just your run of the mill heartbreaker. The kind dads warn their daughters about..”

As far as details..not quite sure what to put considering I don’t really know her.

I’ve never been sucessful when a girl messages me first without meeting in person. In person or if I’ve met the chick before and we’re texting I’m pretty good. This is my “sticking point” if you want to call it that. Any help will be much appreciated.

Thanks,
Ephraim
mary 6:10 am

Hey there, I met this girl in school about 2 years ago and we’ve been texting each other for some time now and she was interested in me at first (she used to text me “good morning jerk:) on a daily basis for about 2 weeks?)” but now it seems like she lost attraction for me because I said this “It’s too bad you’re not my type, you seem like a cool person.” Also, I’ve haven’t seen this girl for almost 2 years and she wanted to see me but I wasn’t sure about meeting up with her before knowing what to do. Is there anyway to build up the chemistry between us again?

Thanks,
MARY
maggi 8:32 am

i like a girl
she is my classmate and does not talk to boys often
i am in love with her since we were in standard 9 and currently i am in standard 12
i found out her number from my source but i dont know how to begin messaging her and ask her for date and you know all that
please help
she is my necessity
Midnight Train 12:55 am

How you met her: I met Doreen and her friends standing in line waiting to get into a club.

How long you’ve known her: Oh, 15 minutes.

Have you had any exchanges so far? I tried phoning twice.

Any other short details that might be helpful: Yeah, this is an old lead that I’m interested to see if texting can recover. She was fun in person but I was new to PUA and didn’t establish much of a connection. She gave me her phone number when I asked, but did not return my two messages. To add to it, this was about a year ago.

If texting can recover this dead situation, it can work for any situation.

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